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“The Gray Family,All of us at TKE International Headquarters were saddened to hear about the passing of Bob. We know he was a great and passionate...Read More »
1 of 9 | Posted by: Karen Coleman - Indianapolis, IN

“Mrs Carolyn Gray sorry to hear of your loss Praying for God to help you on you journey without my Best friend, my Big brother and Boss we shared...Read More »
2 of 9 | Posted by: Reginia Puckett - Indianapolis, IN

“Dear Carolyn,So sad to hear the news. Prayers for peace and comfort for you and the family in your time of sorrow. ”
3 of 9 | Posted by: Roxann Carpenter - Ft Wayne, IN

“Hi Carolyn,I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.dd ”
4 of 9 | Posted by: Denise Szelis

“Dear Carolyn, I was saddened to read of Bob's passing. May your many happy memories bring comfort to you and your family as you adjust to life...Read More »
5 of 9 | Posted by: Belita Ramsey - Duncan Falls, OH

“Hi Carolyn: Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our thoughts and Prayers. Lifting you up during this time of sorrow. He is...Read More »
6 of 9 | Posted by: Dale Bultemeier - Fort Wayne, IN

“Sorry for your loss. Praying for God's peace and consolation for the family. ”
7 of 9 | Posted by: Kris Hoover - Fort Wayne, IN

“Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort. I am so sorry for your loss.Denise ”
8 of 9 | Posted by: Denise Omstead - Fresno, CA

“I hope that our Lord brings you and your family the much-needed peace during this sad time. My condolences to you and your family. ”
9 of 9 | Posted by: Trudy Young Young - Ossian, IN

Robert F Gray Jr, 72, passed away Sunday, April 1, 2018 at Parkview Regional Medical Center in Fort Wayne following a long illness. He was born in Hazleton, IN, to the late Robert and Bettie Gray. Bob was a 1963 graduate of old Central High School in Evansville, In. He earned a baseball scholarship to the University of Evansville, and was a member of the TKE fraternity. He joined the Army and was an intelligence specialist with the 11th Armored Cavalry (the Black Horse) in Vietnam. Upon discharge from the Army, Bob earned a bachelor's degree from the University Of Southern Indiana in Evansville. He taught elementary education in Frankfort, In., and Zanesville Ohio for over 15 years and was also a math instructor at Muskingum Tech, also in Zanesville. Robert coached high school football, baseball and wrestling for several years. Prior to his retirement, Bob was a manager for Meijer in Kokomo, Indiana. Bob and his wife lived in Arkansas, Georgia, and Ohio during his retirement, finally returning to Indiana. Bob was a life member of the 11th Armored Cavalry's Veterans of Vietnam and Cambodia, an avid golfer and bowler. Surviving are his wife of 48 years, Carolyn S. Gray of Fort Wayne, IN; sons, Nick (Lauren Vautaw) Gray of Kokomo, IN; Alex Gray of Pittsburgh, PA; grandson Owen Gray, twin granddaughters Fiona and Mila Gray, grand dog, Moogie and his companion dog, Parker. Sister-in-laws and Brother-in-laws include Lisa Burke, Gary (Jina) Burke, and J. Scott (Jo) Burke and sister Mary Francis Gray all of Evansville, Indiana. Robert was preceded in death by son, John Andrew Gray, and 2 sisters. The family would like to thank the staff and doctors at the Fort Wayne VA, Parkview Regional CCU, 4th Floor Medical Unit, and Parkview Randallia CCC for their excellent care. A private military service will be conducted at Arlington National Cemetery. Memorials may be made to the grandchildren's education fund, via To sign the online guest book, go to