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“Joe was a good friend to me at work. He helped me learn how to work at my first job. He was a good mentor for me. We also had fun talking about...Read More »
1 of 12 | Posted by: Lucas Amodio - St. Louis, MO

“To Connie (I did not know Pete but my condolences to him too) I had been thinkiing of you for some reason this week. Then I read of your son's...Read More »
2 of 12 | Posted by: Charlotte Stanley (Wylie) - VA

“To Pete and Connie. I am deeply saddened by Joseph's passing. I know he had a lot of diabetes issues. Joesph was always so kind. I'm sending prayers...Read More »
3 of 12 | Posted by: Melissa Hudson - Moyock, NC

“Me and cousin Joe spent many good times together as kids. He laughed at all my silly jokes. We always had a good time together. Our mothers Shirley &...Read More »
4 of 12 | Posted by: Doug Hamilton - Chesapeake, VA

“My condolences to you all. I have often asked Cathy for updates on you all over the years. I am so sorry to hear of Joseph's passing. Sending my love...Read More »
5 of 12 | Posted by: Amber Lane (Hudson) - Moyock, NC

“My brother, Bill Myers, and I were so saddened to learn about Joe's passing. We grew up with Joe - he on S. Fairview Circle and we on Maupin Ave. -...Read More »
6 of 12 | Posted by: Rebecca "Becky" Myers-Cutchins - VA

“We knew him as a baby and watched him grow up having lived beside his grandmother. We are so sorry to hear this. ”
7 of 12 | Posted by: Rusty and Betty,Linda, Pat and Jan Crutcher - VA

“He was one of the nicest people I ever talked to he lived a great life and loved his kids. He loved telling stories and just talking. ”
8 of 12 | Posted by: Mason Spenn - Fort Wayne, IN

“My deepest sympathy to Joe's parents Pete and Connie. I have experienced the sadness of losing a grown son and facing the unfairness of outliving...Read More »
9 of 12 | Posted by: Bernie Kirsch - Virginia Beach, VA

“Fond memories of our younger days RIP Joe! ”
10 of 12 | Posted by: John Wood - Norfolk, VA

“I would like to offer my sincere condolences to Joseph's family, sorry for your loss. Jeremiah 29:11 assures us that God is thinking thoughts of...Read More »
11 of 12 | Posted by: A friend

“I remember when Joseph was born but I never knew him as he grew up. However, I have remained a close friend of his father and therefore can assume he...Read More »
12 of 12 | Posted by: Jerry Dearmon - Williamsburg, VA

Joseph R. Stelmack, 56, passed away Tuesday, August 7, 2018 in Fort Wayne. Born in Portsmouth, VA, Joseph worked as a software engineer with Raytheon. He had a great sense of humor and enjoyed spending time with his family. He was a kind and loving person and will be greatly missed. Surviving are his father, John Stelmack of Littleton, NC; mother, Connie (Rick) Kumer of Virginia Beach, VA; children, Amber (Joshua) Magner, Brianna Stelmack, and Noah Stelmack all of Roanoke, IN; and grandchildren, Leland and Emmett Magner. Service is 1:00 pm, Sunday, August 12, 2018 at D.O. McComb & Sons Covington Knolls Funeral Home, 8325 Covington Road with Pastor Darrell Weigelt officiating. Calling at D.O. McComb & Sons Covington Knolls Funeral Home, Sunday, August 12, 2018, 11:00 am - 1:00 pm. To sign the online guest book, go to